Experiencing A Senior Moment

Since I was born during a certain decade, I’ve been unceremoniously tossed out like rancid seafood into society’s aging segment known as ‘baby boomers.’ I hate that name. Really I do.  It makes me feel like the universe is punishing me for getting old, that I’m sliding down the slippery slope of life on my last legs in the grips of rheumatoid arthritis, and that I have to wear Depends to avoid embarrassing #2 accidents in public. Ugly, ain’t it?  That baby boomer term further classifies me as an old geezer, which is what I used to mockingly call my grandparents under my breath when they were in their early 60’s and I was a young sprite of six.  And since we are a society of labels, I prefer to be called a ‘seasoned fly girl’ or a ‘frisky miss.’  And by my estimation, I’m still young and young at heart.  I still have a lot of juice left in me.

Granted, Father Time is not known to be kind.  His wicked, twisted sense of humor shows him to be indiscriminate when it comes to saddling boomers with age-related ailments, wrinkles, and stubborn gray hairs, which have cropped up in my hair much too soon.  Not one to stand still for the bullet charging towards me, I had to do something to fend off the inevitable tide of aging. 

Too often I fell victim to senior boredom moments, which threw my perky spirit and demeanor into overdrive.  I couldn’t sit still to save my life. I thought I had the early stages of ADD. Everywhere I went, fidgeting, forgetfulness, and fussiness tagged along excitedly like balls and chains attached to my ankles.  They made me do things that almost always proved embarrassing though I got away with most of them because of my age and that pitiable ‘baby boomer’ category.  But with me, forgetfulness is the worst.  Case in point:  I thought I’d try something new to try to spiff up my appearance.  No, no Botox, no lipo, no face lifts or anything radical like that. I started with my hair, opting to lighten it a bit to a soft, golden brown.  Now, I’d tackled home dye jobs before with results ranging from reasonably satisfying to being ready for a magazine cover photo shoot.   So with this new product, I didn’t expect anything other than success. The product came with a color booster, a white powder (not cocaine) which I had to add to the dye mixture to lift my hair to a lighter shade.  The instructions were easy, but very explicit:  ‘Pay attention to the shade of lightness desired, then rinse out quickly.’  Too easy.  But that ‘pay attention’ part whizzed by my overly active, impatient brain, thus the self-diagnosed ADD affliction.

After mixing the ingredients, I slathered it all on my hair.  To entertain myself for the 20-minute wait, I fired up my computer and started one of my favorite board games.  Initially lost in strategy with the sneaky computer’s slight edge on me, I prevailed and managed to increase my points. Poised to slam dunk it for a win, suddenly I felt something slowly dripping down my neck.  Oh, crap!  I raced to the bathroom and looked in the mirror.  What I saw forced me to release a scream, which scattered all the birds from the trees in the neighborhood……AAAAAACCCCCCHHH!   My reflection was a sidekick for Carrot Top, the wacky comedian with an electrifying mop of red hair, except mine was a bright Halloween orange.  I stared at myself in disbelief, wondering if my computer was in on this disaster.

The worst part of this calamity hadn’t surfaced yet.  No, my hair didn’t fall out.  And no, orange hair wouldn’t go well with my café au lait shade of Black skin.  Slowly, the reality of this horrible drama crept in:  this took place on a Sunday evening.  Tomorrow was Monday, a workday.

I had to think fast and become creative to camouflage this catastrophe.  I my weighed options. Taking sick leave was out of the question, as there’s no illness called “stupid,” which is, thankfully, only a temporary condition for some of us.  Wearing a floppy hat or a baseball cap all day at my desk would look foolish. Tying a scarf around my head for the entire day would look cool, if this were the 60’s and I was headed to Woodstock.  But I work in security and such a get-up would draw the heavy fire of suspicious looks and degrading whispers about my sanity. 

Thankfully, a baby boomer bright idea crashed through my wall of indecision. I’d go with a boho-chic outfit and top it off with a colorful, coordinating skull-cap. Yes, I’d dress ethnic for the day. No one would have the nerve to question my appearance, which is covered under a sub sub-category of a vague law protecting the outfits endangered minority species wear.

After getting ready, I headed to work, reassured about my sense of style.  Thankfully, none of my coworkers asked any questions about my vibrant ensemble with an accompanying skull-cap.  A few dared to tell me that they liked it either out of a loss for any other words to say to me or for fear of being labeled ‘insensitive’ to my minority group way of dressing.  Some even said it looked stylish and cute.  Little did they know of the disaster hiding underneath it. 

But I didn’t want cute.  I didn’t want stylish. I wanted unabashed sympathy.  I wanted to share my miserable hair color with my friends.  So I emailed them, and the responses came quickly as expected.  My wonderful friends (God bless ‘em) never hesitate to offer me their shoulder, give me brutally honest feedback, or chide me like a two-year-old child even when I’ve committed some senior cardinal sin, which I could have easily avoided.

I sent out this message:  “Does anyone out there care that I’m having a BAD HAIR DAY?”  No further details were necessary.  They all knew that I had done something outrageous…again!  A few responses came immediately:

LOURETTA:  “I care.”

KATHY:  “How does one with hair so short have a bad hair day?”

DAVE:  “Wow, I wish I had a picture of that.  Can you send me one?”

Of course I hadn’t realized that some of my friends didn’t even have hair anymore either by choice or some genetic quirk, and probably wouldn’t care about my bright orange short ‘do. From them I got

LEE:  “Um, I don’t know how to say this without hurting your feelings!   Why don’t you just shave it all off like I have?  It’s all the rage these days, you know.

NEIDEL:  “Join us!  Shave it off!”

REGGIE:  “I have a manual on how to get the cue ball look.  You can borrow it if you like.”

Well, you get my drift.

As the end of the day approached, I started talking to myself.  “You idiot!  You can’t wear this cap and outfit two days in a row.  Coworkers would begin to seriously question my fashion savvy.  Let’s see, I could dye my hair a darker color.  Maybe I’ll get the color I wanted in the first place.  Of course I’d risk losing my hair with harsh coloring chemicals two days in a row.”  It was hairdo-or-dye time and a chance I was willing to take. 

I left work and stopped at the PX and bought a shade in a medium brown.  After arriving home, I changed clothes before preparing the mixture, being careful to follow the directions to the letter this time.  I exercised great restraint to avoid my computer, which had the nerve to beckon me for another challenge game. It even dared me to touch the keyboard, which would no doubt lure me in hook, line and sinker.  I ignored it and continued with my experiment.  Boring as it was, I even watched the clock, waiting for its second hand to tick out the full 20-minute time period.  At the end of the process, the color of my hair didn’t match the color variations on the back of the box. But I’d finally reached a pleasing shade of light brown, which I thought matched my skin tone perfectly.  I was happy with it.  At work the next day, I received a few compliments from guys, no less.  But there’s one sad irony to this, pardon my pun, colorful tale:  I’ll never be able to duplicate this particular color again, unless, of course…   

Author: Colorful, unique posters for any occasion.

I am a Retired Army Veteran having a blast at doing what I love to do. Web Site: www.cmetzposterdesigns.wordpress.com Blog: Cmetzblogs.wordpress.com Email: MAIOUI2000@YAHOO.COM

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